The other day a client was confused about dating. He dressed nice, was clean, wore her favorite cologne, opened the doors for her, but still he felt hopeless. I attribute this to "Vanilla".
Years ago Gary Larsen nailed it with a cartoon who's caption was: "Same planet, different worlds". The man in his cartoon wondered if he did the right things, while the woman kept thinking about Vanilla. Yes, the worlds of men and women are different. Don't let this stop you. People may do all the perfect things in relationships and they still fail. In another a stupid slip up may lead to spontaneous displays of passion! In relationships it's all about luck.
Now I'm not saying don't shave, wear nice clothes, and open doors. What I am saying is when the "Vanilla" hits, enjoy the taste, you might get lucky!
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